Wednesday, 13 February 2013

Best Friends Forever

I've never really allowed the pop-culture to dictate my friendship,and why should I?Who says,a man and a woman cannot be 'best friends'?Why is it that friendship between men and women seem to be forever at odds with platonic behavior? Why?
Okay...
Can anyone tell me who is a 'FRIEND' or whom should we be 'FRIENDS' with? Anyone?

I'll give the answer,NO we cannot say who should be a friend and who shouldn't.Its not something that one can plan and do.A friend can be found in your mother,father,brother,a girl at school,a guy next door or even someone you are associated with!

Who is a Friend?
-Someone who understands your past,believes in your future and accepts you just the way you are.

So now where does it say,a guy cannot be your best friend!Our Modern Indian culture has adopted micro mini skirts or even low waist-ed jeans but at the same place not a simple relationship!

I've my best friend that to a guy,and I proudly say 
'WE ARE BEST FRIENDS FOREVER'.
Yes! We support each other,care about each other and above all unconditionally love each other.Who says 'LOVE' just has to mean one that's between a couple?
What a mother shows to her child is love,a brother to his sister is love,and a friend to another is even love.

Sometime back,I was often asked "So you both going around,it seems"
And I was like "No,we are good friends"
But then with time I realized no point,and why should I justify or define.We know what we are and moreover these questions never end.Its human nature,they will always be judgmental.

He is the sweetest,the cutest friend ever.We are always fighting and the next moment making up for it.We understand each other in our own way and rely for support.We backup for the other and are buddies for lifetime.He irritates me when he is drunk,and I return it back when my mood's off.We are breaking up and making up in return with double the bargain.
We are simply happily together...

I watch this T.V. Show 'Grey's Anatomy' and I'm so in love with the friendship between 'Mark Sloan and Callie Torres'(you'll know if you've watched the show).
They Are Friends Without Words.

We are young now,and soon will grow up and be more matured people,and at one point it will be good to have a friend,when you don't have to talk anymore,he/she will know.And that friend is found out of rare people.I've found my dearest friend.'A FRIEND WITHOUT WORDS',as I would like to call it..(yes! makes me feel lucky)

True friendship is about unconditional love,you just have to make sure that you honor and respect that by choosing to be the best friend you deserve to be.

For now,my friend has just got over and moved on in life,with his new girlfriend,and I want all readers to wish him well,like I do........

4 comments:

  1. I totally agree with each and every word you said. LOVE is UNIVERSAL as you have stated. It has been named differently just by us. Its all about mindsets of people. They are irrational with their thoughts and just know to blame others considering old traditions and rituals in mind. Being skeptic is good but at right places.

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    1. Jitu: That mindset needs to widen.Change is required and sometimes it for the good then why not accept it like we've done with so many other stuff...

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  2. you are a swthrt ! Love you :) Friends for life .

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